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Effie Caldarola: We ask for a sign when it’s better to be one

caldarolaAs a small child, I was a bit of a religious nerd. I’m not sure why, but I was the oldest child, the only daughter, and our little Catholic mission parish in farm country was central to our lives. From a young age, faith intrigued me.

Kathryn Evans Heim: We become what we behold

heimThere are so many things clamoring for our attention these days, in all different kinds of ways. We are assaulted by advertisements, which are practically unavoidable on every video we watch, on billboards, on the radio and on our social media feeds.

Deacon Enedino Aquino: Are we making progress this Lent?

aquinoWe began the season of Lent this past Feb. 14, precisely on Valentine’s Day, a day of love and friendship. What better time to begin this season with the true love of Jesus in His self-giving for us!

Jaymie Stuart Wolfe: This Lent, embrace the call to forgive

JaymieWolfeIn Roman Catholic parishes, the rituals of Lent begin with the imposition of ashes on Ash Wednesday. But many Eastern Christians – both Catholic and Orthodox – set the tone for the penitential season of Lent by observing another tradition: Forgiveness Sunday.

Dr. Tod Worner: Amid so much noise, we crave silence

wornerShhhh.
Do you hear that?
That’s right – Nothing.
Silence.

Deacon James H. Toner: True leadership requires character, competence

tonerDefective or dangerous – that is, inauthentic – leadership, at any level, concerning any plan or project, always departs from God’s providence, which we know from scripture, tradition and the settled magisterium. We are all in different circumstances, but we are all called to learn by the Light and to lead to the Light. That is genuine leadership, whether papal, political or plebeian. Its absence is chaos, corruption and crime.

Buettner: Nighttime conversations with children and God

BuettnerThe story of God calling out to Samuel when he’s sleeping always makes me think of parenting a young child in the middle of the night.

Caldarola: ‘The poor you have always with you,’ but are you with them?

caldarolaIt was a crisp morning a few years back, and the streets were largely empty. I was early for a meeting downtown and I planned to pick up a coffee on my way.

cvnc MR 12 FROM THE PASTORS

Read and listen to homilies posted regularly by pastors at parishes within the Diocese of Charlotte:

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NEWSOMEWith widespread religious disaffiliation not only among Catholics, but Christians in general, it’s safe to say that today most people’s idea of what a funeral should be has been formed more by what they’ve seen in movies than from a religious context. But funerals are religious services, and because they often draw together people who do not otherwise participate in the life of the Church, they can be important moments of evangelization.

It is important that we, as Catholics, know not only what the Catholic Church does but why we do it, when it comes to our funeral rites. Like all liturgical rites, funerals have a specific function in the life of the Church. Catholic funeral rites actually consist of three liturgies, outlined in the “Order of Christian Funerals” (OCF), each serving a distinctive purpose in ministering to the bereaved and commemorating the deceased.

The first is the vigil, which takes place sometime between the death of the deceased and the time of the funeral. The service consists of a Liturgy of the Word and intercessory prayer, and may be celebrated at a church, a funeral home or a private residence.
The ministry of the Church exercised during the vigil is that of “gently accompanying the mourners in their initial adjustment to the fact of death and to the sorrow this entails” (OCF 52). It is a time for mourners to express their grief and to receive consolation. At the vigil, God’s word in Scripture is offered “as light and life in the face of darkness and death” (OCF 56). The vigil liturgy is an appropriate time for a friend or family member of the deceased to offer a eulogy in their remembrance (OCF 62). The rubrics even allow for the celebration of multiple vigils if necessary, especially if there is to be some delay between the time of the death and the funeral itself (OCF 67).

The funeral proper is what most of us are familiar with. In this liturgy the focus shifts from comforting the bereaved to praying for the departed. Not that comfort should not continue to be offered, but the primary purpose of the Catholic funeral is to pray for the repose of the soul of the dead. For this reason, it is most appropriate for the funeral to take place at the parish church (preferably the parish of the deceased) and within the context of the Mass, which is the highest form of prayer the Church can offer. The sacrifice of the Mass is so important to the way we intercede for the dead that even when a funeral is celebrated without a Mass (sometimes necessary if a priest is not available), the Church instructs that “a Mass for the deceased should be scheduled … at a convenient time after the funeral” (OCF 128). As the responsibility to pray for the dead belongs to the entire Church, funerals are ordinarily public events in which the whole community is encouraged to participate (OCF 150).

Following the example of Scripture and tradition, the Church teaches that it is “a holy and pious thought” to pray for the dead (cf. 2 Mac 12:45). It is the teaching of the Church that those who die in God’s friendship but who are not yet perfectly purified from all attachment to sin have their purification completed in purgatory before entering into the glory of heaven. God will bring to completion the good work He has begun in us (cf. Phil 1:6), and the prayers we offer here can benefit those undergoing their final purification. This is why we must never treat funerals as if they are “canonization Masses.” If we presume our loved ones are already in heaven, we may fail in our Christian duty to offer prayers for them. For this reason, the homily at a funeral should focus on “the paschal mystery of the Lord” and “never [be] any kind of eulogy” (OCF 141).

The third and final movement of our Catholic funeral rites is the committal, or burial service. This may be performed immediately after the funeral or at a later date if the burial is to be delayed. The purpose of this graveside service is to bid farewell to our loved one as we lay him or her to rest, to express our hope in the resurrection, and to remember “the communion that exists between the Church on earth and the Church in heaven” (OCF 206).

These three movements together beautifully achieve all that the Church would have us do to mark the solemn occasion of the death of a loved one – we offer comfort with the vigil, pray for the dead in the funeral liturgy and express our hope in the resurrection as we lay the dead to rest. If the complementary purposes of these three movements are neglected, mourners often attempt to accomplish these various ends with one service. When this happens, greater emphasis is often given to comforting the bereaved or celebrating the life of the departed than praying for the repose of their soul.

The very first sentence in the General Introduction to the Order of Christian Funerals articulates two great truths that the Church proclaims, through her liturgies, in the face of death. The first is that “God has created each person for eternal life” (OCF 1). Sacred Scripture teaches that “God did not make death, nor does he rejoice in the destruction of the living” (Wis 1:13). Death is something to be mourned, and there is nothing wrong with feeling grief at the loss of a loved one.

But the second great truth that lies at the heart of Catholic funerals is this: “Jesus, the Son of God, by His death and resurrection, has broken the chains of sin and death” (OCF 1). This is why the most important person at any funeral is not the person in the casket, and certainly not the person standing at the altar, but the

Person on the altar, who died for us so that we might live in, through and for Him.

Funerals serve one other important purpose. They are public reminders of our mortality. None of us will escape the grave, so let us live each day so as to be ready for our last. Lord, “make us know the shortness of our life that we may gain wisdom of heart” (Ps 90:12).

Deacon Matthew Newsome is the Catholic campus minister at Western Carolina University and the regional faith formation coordinator for the Smoky Mountain Vicariate.